Today’s theme comes from a lovely award that Ruby kindly passed along to me:

Thanks, Ruby! If you haven’t checked out her blog, you should—she has a great, healthy attitude and makes some very yummy veggie-centric meals
I’m going to pass this along to 2 bloggers I feel the “sisterhood” with:
1.) Olga from Healthing It. We have a lot in common and it was so much fun meeting her at the blogger brunch! I’m sure you already read her blog, but if you don’t, get on it! She is fully of life and makes wonderful photogenic meals
2.) Yasmin from It’s a Wrap! I got to know her a little bit through the Forbidden Foods challenge and really admire the way she kicked her pb-anxiety. She recently wrote, “You will be happy to know I finished a jar of peanut butter in this past week and half. Ha! I laugh in the face of my forbidden food! I ate the whole thing without regressing back to my eating disorder.” YASMIN, YOU ROCK!
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Last night, I “caved” and had an apple with a tbsp. of non-raw cashew butter, because I was hungry and really craving it:

It did not disappoint!
Today was a very exciting day for me, because I went to a drama workshop and saw Lynn Nottage’s play Ruined—all for free, through a “family matinee” program that brings together kids from NYC community groups and their families/mentors. I went with the girl I mentor through Girls Write Now, her twin sister, and her sister’s mentor. Before I left the house, I took Arthur for a quick walk and had exactly what I was craving for breakfast:

canteloupe, soy yogurt, oats, ~1/2 c. pb puffins, raspberries, 1 tbsp. cashew butter, agave
I also packed a snack to take with me:

The workshop was wonderful—we took themes from the play and created short, impromptu scenes, which we performed for the rest of the group. Since Ruined is about the Congolese civil war (and the gut-wrenching things that happen to women who get caught in the middle of the conflict), most of the scenes were based around lines from the play like “You won’t fight your battles on my body anymore!,” piectures of women and children fleeing scenes of destruction, men (and young boys) with guns, etc. People came up with really creative ways of expressing the conflicts; one group acted out a scene about Hurricane Katrina to show the parallels, and another did a scene about a son being drafted and then killed at war.
Once the workshop was over, we grabbed a quick lunch before walking up to the theatre for the play. I ate my apple on the way.

1/2 a roasted veggie wrap (too much oil!!), a mini ET bagel (from the b'fast spread at the workshop), lentil soup, and a pickle
The play was, as expected, pretty upsetting, but also uplifting. Lynn Nottage interviewed women in refugee camps to piece together the characters in her play, and was shocked by the prevalence of hope despite the dismal conditions. It came through in each character. After the play, a few of the cast members came out to discuss the play with the audience, and afterwards, I talked with the play’s Congolese guitar player for awhile. I’m glad the experience was so interactive; it’s rare that you get to meet cast members after a show.
After the show, I ate my Clif bar on the subway ride back to Brooklyn (my mentee and her sister came with me). We did about an hour of writing about themes in the play, since we’re required to submit two pieces of writing to the Girls Write Now anthology in less than a week and we only have one piece ready each! I continued the sisterhood theme by writing about feminism. I’ve never come to a good relationship with that word, despite (or maybe because of?) the fact that I went to a women-only college. I think it’s just that I’ve known a few women who wear the word like a badge of honor, but don’t live by its principles (i.e. staying in relationships with horrible guys who treat them horribly). Am I horrible for thinking this way? Do you consider yourself a feminist? Why or why not?
Once the two girls headed back to Far Rockaway, I made a delicious three-course dinner. It started with sweet potato rounds dipped in Country Bob’s and ketchup:

Went on to a big raw kale/parsley salad with red onion, carrots, 2 slices veggie bacon, and yummy homemade dressing (raw tahini/apple cider vinegar/olive oil/salt/pepper):

and ended with a diced red delicious apple + ~1/2 c. pb puffins drizzled in blackstrap molasses and raw agave nectar:

I was definitely craving fresh food after my mostly non-raw day! I felt good after eating dinner
What’s nice about raw foods is that they require little to no preparation; just slice and eat!
I’ll be back later with a baking recap (3 yummy things planned!)
March 29, 2009 at 4:24 pm
Thanks so much for the sisterhood reward! I was happily surprised to receive such an honor. I would not have had the strength and courage to face my fear without your encouragement and I thank you tremendously for that. The blogging community is such a great support group and I feel so lucky. Have a wonderful Sunday!
March 29, 2009 at 4:29 pm
Congrats on your award!! Glad the workshop went well
I’m a happy medium on the feminist scale – I like to be the strong, independent woman but if I had the chance to be a stay at home and be a good little housewife, I probably would.
Country Bob’s and sweet potato = love it!
March 29, 2009 at 4:45 pm
congrats on the sisterhood award!
that play sounds incredible (as does the workshop) — i love stories that are based on real interviews like that, and it’s so important to have that component when the topic is about something that seems too horrifying to be true! the personal stories get the point across that it’s a REAL issue, even though it seems so unbelievable.
i wouldn’t call myself a feminist. maybe a personist? haha, i know that’s a copout, but i hate giving myself rigid labels!
March 29, 2009 at 5:15 pm
Congrats on the award!!! How cool!
I definitely consider myself what I’d call a “modern feminist”. While I do think that a lot of the “older” issues are still in play, there are others that are much more pressing.
March 29, 2009 at 6:50 pm
Thanks so much for the award
! I love getting these!!!
I do consider myself a feminist. Actually, in my freshman year writing class, I wrote a whole paper called “The F Word” about how the term has been given a bad rep. I go to a very liberal and socially progressive school but I think I’d feel this way in another atmosphere as well. I am all for the right of women to receive equal pay as men (we STILL make less than them by the dollar, which is ridiculous) and I think women have equal opportunities in all aspects of life.
But I also grew up in a different contexts…In the 1950s in Ukraine, my grandmother was a single mom, who had a solid job in accounting, and raised two daughters to be doctors. The U.S. on the other hand? Totally different world at that time…
Nice eats! I’m glad you had a great time at the play, I love that you mentor other young women!
March 30, 2009 at 1:08 am
Congrats on the award!
I love that oatmeal raisin clif bar but don’t get it nearly enough.
I’ve never considered myself a feminist, but I’m going to go with Sarah and say I’m a personist, I’m all for everyone being equal.
March 30, 2009 at 11:13 am
Congrats on the award! You definitely deserve it
It looks like you had such a fun day! I have never tried that flavor Clif Bar, will have to check it out. What a neat experience, the workshop and the play. Have a great week!
March 30, 2009 at 3:34 pm
why don’t you update your blog anymore?
March 30, 2009 at 10:34 pm
Looks like a really fun day!!!
In some ways I feel like I am a feminist, but then I do stuff (like completely expect a guy to pay for the first date) and I wonder if I’m in 1959 or 2009. I guess I realize that while I feel very strongly about equality, I definitely have some work to do!
March 31, 2009 at 11:11 am
Glad you liked the award! What an intense play by the sounds of it… I consider myself a feminist, but I must agree with Fay Weldon in that I feel there is more to be achieved in other countries where women don’t even have basic rights, than there is to do in more Western countries with regards to such things as how many men and women are on the work force, etc.